• Not at all. I realize this isn’t common, but that’s part of what helped me know this is a great gift I can give to the world. Death is part of life and I enjoy meeting people in this space. It’s where truth and vulnerability can be found and I prefer those kinds of conversations.

  • I have no idea, but it’s one of my favorite things to wonder about. I personally believe there is only love beyond this world. I’m always interested in learning what others think and believe.

  • It depends entirely on what you want and who is providing the service. Most funeral homes are owned by a handful of corporations. I prefer working with privately owned funeral homes because they have friendlier prices and align more closely with my ethics. No matter who you choose to work with, I can share what I know so that you make informed decisons.

  • You can fill out the contact form below, and I’ll reach out to schedule a time for us to talk. If texting or email feels easier, that’s completely fine too. I want this to feel as comfortable and low-pressure as possible.

  • I offer both hourly support and package options, depending on what you need. Once I have a better sense of your situation, I’ll walk you through what I recommend and what that would look like.

    I don’t work with insurance, but I’m always transparent about costs and will help you find something that feels manageable and clear.

  • There’s no “right” time—and it’s almost never too early.

    Some people reach out right after receiving a diagnosis, when everything feels overwhelming and uncertain. Others come when things have progressed and they need more hands-on support. And some people connect with me while they’re still healthy, simply because they want to be prepared and have their wishes clearly thought through.

    If you’re thinking about it at all, that’s usually enough of a reason.

    Early support can give you more space to plan, process, and make decisions without pressure. But even if things feel urgent or already in motion, there is still so much we can do together to bring clarity, comfort, and a sense of steadiness.

    You don’t have to wait for things to get harder to have support in place.

  • It can look different for everyone, which is part of the beauty of this work.

    Sometimes I’m helping you think through and document your wishes—things like medical decisions, funeral plans, or how you want to spend your time. Sometimes I’m sitting with you, talking through fears, memories, or the things that feel hardest to say out loud. Sometimes I’m supporting family members who are trying to keep it together and don’t know where to start.

    I can help coordinate, advocate, listen, research, organize, or simply be a calm presence in the room.

    There’s no one version of this role. I meet you where you are and support what matters most to you—whether that’s practical, emotional, spiritual, or all of the above.

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